Crap Message From A Girl or, Dudes Aren't The Only Psycho-Douchbags on OKCupid...

 May 5, 2011 – 9:03pm
You are very cute and very hot too... I am going to be in the Bay Area this weekend.. If you want to meet up just hit me up! Sounds Despo? No worries... Well YES cos I am tired of having no guy to hug and kiss lol! Just kidding...

Just wanted to say 'Hi' and thought of creeping you out for a bit! Lol

Have a good rest of the evening!

-Girl's Name

May 4, 2011 – 9:01am
I was just kidding.. But believe me, if you are single... It's different.. Having no one to kiss and hugs sucks.. It sucks for me sometimes too.. I work at this place where there are no single cute men, actually there are no single men at all.. There are all old married men lol! I don't understand how the bar scene works.. Anyways I cannot hang out at the bar either. With whom can I btw? 95% of my friends in US are married rest 5% are out of country.

-Girl's Name

May 5, 2011 – 9:48am
Where are you from? Don't they have bars there? Why can't you hang out in bars? Not to say that the bar scene is the end all or anything. So if you're not heading to the bars on the weekend what are you doing? What brings you to the Bay Area this weekend?

J 

May 5, 2011 – 9:54am
Ok.. I admit.. This must be a huge turn off for you.. I don't know how to do the bar thing and I am new to how to meet men and stuff... Not good at it.. Yea yea call me dumb. I am traveling there to meet my cousin
 
May 5, 2011 – 10:01am
Actually I am not good at Internet thing either.. It doesn't allow ppl to be themselves you have to always walk on eggshells lol

May 5, 2011 – 10:52am
Scared you away?? You are not the first guy to judge.. I wan to be with someone worldly and spontaneous.. Someone who has a damn passport and has travelled the world like me lol.. There is no point being so weary all the time.. I am not telling you my ethnicity or where I am from.. I have come across plenty of ppl who on this free website who hate ppl of colour ( the world has moved on you also should), ppl of certain ethnicity etc. You are not getting anything from me. Bye bye..

May 5, 2011 – 11:26am
geez louise what? race-card out of absolutely nowhere. awesome. the only thing i hate about people of color is when they use the retarded phrase "people of color"...by the way, in my experience white people are more guilty of this than "ppl of color"...
did you really just get mad at me on okcupid? i asked you where you were from because you're obviously not a native speaker of English and i was curious.

[Girl's Name], if that is really you in those photos you should have no problem meeting and attracting men. you're very pretty. what is not attractive is jumping to insane conclusions based on absolutely nothing. you're right, you definitely don't know how to do the online dating thing. take it easy, don't get crazy clingy in the span of a few hours, wait for a reply before sending a new message (i was on my way to work, not ignoring you) and quit thinking the world is out to get you because you have (beautiful) brown skin...

j 

May 5, 2011 – 4:57pm
You didn't mention your religion in your profile, neither your diet, body type, smoke, job, income, children, pets.. I would like to know that.. Will you tell me? No you would never.. Did I ask you about your religion? Was I like.. Ohh... Your jaw structure is jewish with a combination of spanish blah blah? When I contacted you I was just plain interested in knowing you.. And people who are interested don't have questions. They keep an open mind and just go with the flow and that's what I did. You already read that I have a British accent. If I am not good at dating it is not my fault, it is just a positive thing because that means I don't pick just about anybody. And for that you judged me and didn't even bother to reply. You were not even interested in me/my profile because if you were you would have asked me "How are you doing?" "Hows your day going?" or whatever... but instead of that it's just those detective-type questions.. 'Why are you coming to the Bay Area?" Why the heck do you care? If I am coming I am coming.. No one should ever be put in a spot like that where they are asked questions.. A man who would like my profile and would be interested in knowing me would just want to know me, talk to me, etc.. But this seemed like such a chore! I was not interested in answering your questions, honestly I was like "What the heck". I am not a clingy desperate woman.. I was just teasing you with my very first message. I cannot believe you formed a whole impression of me in your mind like that. If you go to a new country and people always keep asking you about your ethnicity/where you are from all the time you are going to be bugged.. At some point people want to be accepted as they are and just be considered a part of the whole thing. Anyways you won't understand.

I will repent that I contacted you.. Its bad when men do that. But the good thing is I know very well how to not pick the wrong guy.. Thank goodness